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When
discussed by men and for men, the topic is rather delicate, though
it provides an excellent opportunity to evaluate the extent and the
limits of our belief in male supremacy. While the Order of Knighthood
is open to and works for men alone, this ultimately enhances both
sexes rather than define a hierarchy between them. Going further into
and defending the male universe does not mean crushing the female
universe. It is rather a means of recognising its existence and importance.
And as for discussions about its dignity, we consider them not only
futile but injurious. An equality which cannot be taken for granted,
in silence, becomes unreachable and incomplete. To conclude, let us
consider a little known characteristic of equality. It is a law which
works both ways, above all against our will. This means that the other
is both our mirror and our measure. The greater we consider women,
the better we will know ourselves to be, and vice versa.
The
male archetype in which we identify ourselves is that most classic
and ancestral figure: the knight. While from this viewpoint, Man's
conscience aspires to an ideal of Honour and Merit, its female counterpart
aspires to Grace. Behind every Woman there is a Princess, who from
her pedestal stands as a figure of inspiration, counsel, desire, rest
for the warrior, the supreme ornament of herself and of the man accompanying
her, the first principle and ultimate end of great part of our imagination.
According to Nietzsche, Man is attracted by gaming and by risk, and
Woman is the most dangerous game.
We
are pleased to disappoint those who were hoping to find suggestive
comments on this topic, which in our view should not be subject to
any lowering of the tone. Any debasement or trivialisation of the
female involves a loss of our male dignity, and God knows we would
like many more women to realise that the opposite is true. Alas for
the Man who lacks gallantry! Alas for the Woman who betrays her natural
aspiration to Grace, the chosen mother of Elegance! In our recent
history we have become used to stopping at the much cruder value of
aesthetic beauty, beauty which is an end unto itself. It is not there
that Woman must fight her battle, or at least it is not only there.
The nobility to which she legitimately can and must aspire cannot
be measured in the same way as bust size. It is certainly not up to
us to tell her what to do or what to be, but let us be allowed to
express a point of view, a way of feeling that has given great results
and which still today inspires and enchants. In the place of those
tomboy girls, slouching around on the ground just like their male
classmates, using a vocabulary that seems to liberate them while instead
condemning them, we like to evoke the immortal icons of a Maria
Callas, Grace Kelly, or Jacqueline Kennedy. Simple
though with the greatest refinement, spontaneous even when in the
most complete control of themselves, highly eloquent despite the abstraction
fitting to their rank, adorned with the admiration and the blind devotion
they aroused, to us it is women like these who merit the supreme throne.
Any further
comment is superfluous. There is no better way to express what we
mean than looking at the images that have engraved the essence of
femininity in our memory. The most difficult task is capturing that
inexpressible secret which has made them so great. Since simple imitation
is both dangerous and impossible, it is clear that each of us, whether
Man or Woman, must be able to find our own style. Yet, though our
roads will be different, we need to know which way to set out.
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